I'm reading this book right now.  I don't know how I feel about it.  Right now, because of the book, I feel like my marriage won't make it to our 5th anniversary.  This book is a little overwhelming.  Hopefully when I'm done I'll feel more uplifted.  Sonya gave this to all the kids as a early christmas present.  I do love reading things like this.  

Today my client was texting me telling me that she left her husband.  I asked her why.  Even though I already knew the answer.  She tells me and puts a smiley face at the end of it.  I was so mad.  WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE.  I feel like everyone is cheating on their spouses.  What ever happened to marriage is a COMMITMENT a PROMISE to make it through the hard times.  To stay with each other.  You know for rich or for poor, for better or for worse, in sickness and in health till death do you part or eternity or whatever your beliefs may be.  When I was doing her hair a couple of weeks ago I asked her if she was happy and she said she was so I asked her then why even tempt yourself with someone else.  She told me it was because if she had to choose between her ex-fiance or her husband she honestly doesn't know who she would choose.  Will let me help you out!  There is a reason he is your EX!!  I could go off on this all night.  I could probably write a novel.  I'll save it though.  

 Commitment is a little like diving into the water. Either you are committed or you are not. Either you are moving forward or you are standing still. There’s no halfway. We all face moments of decision that change the rest of our lives. As members of the Church, we must ask ourselves, “Will I dive in or just stand at the edge? Will I step forward or merely test the temperature of the water with my toes?” - Dieter F. Utchtdorf 

Even if you're not LDS this is still a great quote.